I really do want to shield DD from all the turmoil. If I can only give her good memories from this divorce, that would make me soooo happy. She is such a happy kid, and I include her in everything. We have discussed where I am going to live (on the beach), she is sooo excited about it, sort of in a hurry to speed up the divorce so she can live there
I also mentioned other things, which she is excited about. I think I have gotten her to a safe place emotionally where she has stopped worrying about mummy and daddy divorcing, and she will have the best of both worlds.
I am sorry to hear about your dad. But I think regardless of his condition now, every now and then he will remember the wonderful life he had with you.
damn, I wish I didn't know what ow looked like. but I do. but your muppet statment has me fast turning her into a muppet version of herself. lol.
I think its wonderful how much love you have for your D. its very sweet, and it sounds like you have built a really tight relationship with her. so nice to see a father who gets a kick out of their kid, and likes to have conversations with them, instead of getting annoyed with them like some people (*cough* H *cough*)
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
And you too andy. Living on the beach with your DD LOVING it....oh yeah, that is one way to annoy your W. And draw quite a few DB'ing ladies your way as well.........
I can only imagine how much harder it would be if I knew what OM looked like.
Mind you, my SIL has given me a description of him. And she doesn't rate him at all. The complete opposite of me in looks and personality. I think maybe the age was what attractive my W to him initially, due to her fear of growing old.
andy, my h has an irrational fear of growing old, too...wonder if there is anything in that? ow isn't younger than him, they are the same age, but wondering if the fear of aging still triggers mlc or something?
is om younger than your w?
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
And draw quite a few DB'ing ladies your way as well.........