Quick Update: I got a call a few hours ago from the atty office handling the divorce. I had already signed the papers and W agreed to hold off filing until I got settled in my new place. She swore that she would not file paperwork behind my back. Anyhow, the atty asked if I was ready to file. I was surprised and asked if W had told him she wanted to file. He hemmed and hawed but admitted, no, she had not told him to file, but he seems to think that she is ready. I stated that she could give me the courtesy of a phone call advising me that she was ready to file. W is atty's wife's sister. Sister thought that she was ready to file. Call me stuborn but I at least want a phone call from the W telling me this is what she wants. I don't intend to argue or get upset but I believe that I deserve to hear this from her. Am I wrong? Just earlier this week W sent a text msg telling of the birth of her nephew. Sister emails me pics of newborn. MIL still forwards jokes to my email address. What is going on? I almost think that sister is meddling and thinks that if D is filed W will be happy again. Atty told me that when asked what the status of filing D paperwork is, W starts crying. I am so confused, this is what she wanted so why is she crying? I am the one who has been cast out to fend for himself. Any thoughts and / or opinions regarding this situation would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
