Very interesting. Like you, I've finished reading the Homer book recently. Halfway through one that's almost identical to DB/DR (Royce somebody).
I posted that while watching the girls and would like to retract most of it. Boiling everything that we're all saying to it's essence (to quote nomo earlier): Let go of the rope.
No more tug of war. Go with what they want. Fighting them isn't working. Telling them how we feel isn't working. Note to self: Forehead bloody, stop ramming wall. Relax. Enjoy life. Begin to create a new one. Rediscover who the hell you really are. If in the process, they come back. Huzzah. If not, hey, Hu-freakin'-zah!
BD
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My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY