LOL! Oh I am not Jewish. My neices' medical school is Jewish! You are so cute!
Sob Story From The Park:
On our play date, my friend opened up about her sister's divorce. Her BIL commited suicide after marrying the OW. Her sister was too "stubborn and judgemental" to forgive his affair so he could not come home after having a MLC and an affair with a coworker. My friend discovered them at work but never told her sister. Instead she kept it a secret knowing how unforgiving her sister would be. he did get caught, left his wife, their two kids. Married OW. Younger, trailer park girl, very poor. This WH then came out of his new marriage after two years but was told he could not come home to his first wife of 17 years. he begged and pleaded but his first wife said "no". She was too proud, big ego and the kids were almost grown and out of the house. He O.D.ed the next week in a half way house. Left a note to his kids. Both wives were at the funeral. But not the kids. Soooo sad. The IC said she was right not to take him back home. That he could have hurt orthers too. She never remarried.
Why did this story strike me so much. My H's aunts keep worrying that my H is also ending his life one way or another. That his behavior is so self destructive. I just say, "Everything will be fine. He has issues. It is typical MLC." Now, I feel like saying, "It is not my problem." Is that wrong?
Last edited by mkultra; 10/03/0710:12 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."