Today is my birthday, and I wasnt; expecting to hear from him, as painful - and unrealistic as that sounds. Well, I got home from work and noticed he had been at the house to get his mail. WHY DID HE HAVE TO COME HERE TODAY OF ALL DAYS? There wasn't even a note for me. He only comes a couple of times/week, so why couldn;t he just wait until tomorrow? He HAS to know what day it is...why is he hurting me so deliberately?