That's not pathetic at all. When we were really troubled and H was away on business I used to take his one of his T shirts out of the linen pile and sleep with it. I still curl up with his pillow if I am feeling sad in the afternoon and want a snooze.
I can't say he does the same with my jodhpurs!!!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength