Well fellow DB'ers, it is that time to accept that my M is definitely over. The loss of trust and the financial damage were just too much. My W has asked that we do this amicably so there will be no bitterness or animosity that could effect our kids.
She has let her guard down somewhat and let me know that she wishes she could feel different about me as we have a history and 2 children together. The poor choices I made, without her knowledge, left us in dire straits and it never got better.
She waited as long as she could stand it to give me a chance to get us back on track but I was unable to. She didn't want it to come to this as she said, "the kids adore you" but she doesn't feel that trying for me or the kids is right.
I won't resist, but I am not going to help her get a D. I must think of what is the best for my D&S as they stand to be hurt the most.
I am missing her and them every day and it will soon be permanent. My W & kids belong with me but things don't always happen the way we want....God Bless
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007