Even tho we are moving on from our M and getting involved with OP, our WAS will still always be in our life since we have kids with them. We will still always love each other but it will be a different kind of love. We still share something that they will never have with their OP and to be able to move on from them but still remain friends may actually be a better thing in my case, at least, cuz we totally sucked at being H & W.

I can't believe my D6 asked me last week if I ever was going to get married again. I wanted to tell her OH HE!! NO but just said well if I find somebody that I really really really get along with then I might consider it.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
Kelley