Chicki, I don't know if I would start sending him emails just yet asking him to start doing work around the house. I would wait until he has moved back in and things are more comfortable between the two of you. If you send that now it just may pressure him into staying away longer.
Once he is actually staying there then you can start talking about helping with the things around the house but do it in a loving way. Hey Babe, I have got to help D with homework right now can you take over the cooking. I can't wait to taste it. or you are so good at all that homework stuff, can you help D. It is all about stroking the man's ego.
Dang girl, I shouldn't have read your bed description of when your H was trying to get it on with you. It has been 4 long months for me now and the new man that I have been seeing is just being way too proper. We went out Friday night and I ended up doing too many southern blues shots so he had to drive me home. I was in my sheer nighty with red lace thong and he still behaved himself. Now I have the kids for another week and a half.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
