Thanks Chevelle - actually doing better this week. Not sure why. I guess I have just come to the conclusion that it is over and that she is in MLC, has several OM, no longer wants to work on it, and will some day regret this.

I too get angry, but thus far have been able to back away when those feelings begin to surface.

My goal is to have this wraped up by the end of the year. I guess I would like to start '08 with a clean slate, realizing that my marital situation and most likely my employment position will both be different. I will be glad to bid adieu to '07!


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM