Forrest Gump and his box of choclates.

[christarn]

Limbo land is a hard place to be, I am there myself. It is also hard putting yourself out there and getting no reception...been there done that also! Good for you though...you are being more in tune with your kids, way awesome...hopefully, if she has any eyes at all she sees that. Are either of you in counseling, or has that issue been brought up? Counseling may help you just by giving you somewhere else to vent. I agree the fine line between detaching and distancing is the toughest....keep up your PMA...you can only control you in all of this! christa