morgan........mad at you? No way! Thank you sooooo much. You kind of opened my eyes. I guess I didn't see it as nagging, because the whole thing didn't really bug me. I was thinking more of D3's comfort. I'll keep a lid on it!

Yoyo.....Thanks for the suggestion. I did try to lay her clothes out. Haven't done it much lately. I tried to get D3 to pick her clothes out ahead of time. But, usually when I pick her up, H has put her in something else.

Pamar....Happy, Happy, Happy. I'll try that. And I promise, no more peeking. Although that going over a knee sounds fun!! LOL

I did take D3's bike to school. I was just pulling away when they were pulling in. H pulled up next to me and when I rolled down my window he started to pull away, then stopped. Smarta$$. So his sense of humor is not completely gone. We both laughed. I told D3 that her bike was there and then asked H for my desk keys off his key ring. Forgot I'd put them on there when I had his car yesterday. Acted "as if", didn't say anything about D3's clothes (they were fine anyway). Told D3 to have a good day & that I'd let them get going. H just said Bye and they left.

I tried to find DR on my way back to work. The only close bookstore was out. DAMN!! I really wanted to start reading that tonight too. I'll have to find it somewhere else.

Back to work. Waiting for my audit partner to show up so we can leave.

Positive, no pursuing, no pushing, no nagging, "as if", I can only change me, I can't control him....etc. ......I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying.

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day