There and Back, #8

[Dom R]

hi morgan,

some leftover comments, from your old thread:

Dont be so sure that your husband has "found his true love", and he will be gone forever.
Personally, the $200 in roses, says to me that it will NOT last.
It sounds to me more like an overblown fantasy balloon, that will eventually pop, when the rubber gets all stretched out and tired

I wasnt suggesting that you ask him to dinner.
All I was suggesting that YOU do, is not block him out, if he wishes to see you, for whatever excuse, on your anniversary day.

I know that it is horribly difficult.
BELIEVE ME, I know!
I wont go into details, but I know that keeping your heart open to stab-wounds, when your spouse is involved in a romance with someone else, seems to be the height of insanity.

Sometimes, though, it can be what lets them know that it is okay to come back. And just how much you love them.

Pushing yourself on them, is pressure. But sometimes, showing that you are open, can be seen as love.

Sometimes.
There's definately a line past which, you are seen as a doormat.
But I think that your anniversary would be a special exception to that.

If you turn him down on your anniversary... to me, that might say that you wish to disassociate yourself with your marriage, and do not want anything more to do with it.