One of my H's uncle had an A. It went on for 4 years before his W found out. They already had a child together. He left W for OW for 1 1/2 years and had a second child with her. He is now back with his W, has been for more than four years. He has to pay child support. It is a mess, but he came home and she was still willing to take him. I don't think I could if it went that far, with other kids and everything.

Funny thing, when this Aunt caught wind of things when my H was in jail, she contacted me and offered support. Now she won't talk to me. H told her I was imagining things and convinced her he is staying with a male co-worker. Even after what she's been through and my describing all the same behaviors, she accepts his word. Convincing guy, huh?

Last edited by nephartiti; 10/03/07 05:32 PM.
Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9