Sorry, MK, we must have been typing at the same time.

Of course you are right. He is throwing his life away. That is one thing, but his actions directly affect you and your children. My high school government teacher used to say, regarding the freedoms and personal rights here in this country, "Your rights end at the other person's nose." You have free will as long as your choices aren't intruding on someone else's rights.

This is a hard dance when our H's are hurting us and the kids through their selfishness. You will find a way, because you are that light tower, you are that rock for your children. Remember what you told me, take H off of your emergency contact list. He does not exist there. Assume that you cannot depend on him. The universe, God, or whatever you believe in, will supply the support you need. Remember all those neighbors that stopped by a few weeks ago? Let the help come from where it flows. You don't have to do everything on your own. You just have to do it without your H.

Did you ever make it down to the WIC office?


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9