Then again . . . . . he's not filed for divorce yet, right?
Darn, there goes that hope, floating up to the surface again!
heh
Sounds like all you can do, in your situation, is not initiate... but when he "has" to contact you, for whatever reason... be pleasant, rather than forcing the "go dark, business only" stuff.
Who knows... after a few months... maybe you two will actually be able to talk more naturally again.
that is perhaps when you will be able to think about doing more.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
