I know you are right. I can almost feel his remorse but he dare not say a word. I feel him looking at me when I am looking away. I get so insecure now but I know this man once worshipped the ground I walked on. I know he feels betrayed by me for wanting a divorce. He feels entitled, so fine.

My friend J said it took her Dad 12 months to come back. He left the country and took OW, much younger. the mother sobbed for months but just had to keep working and jst got quiet after a few months. The kids were almost grown but they were so devastated anyways. The father did exactly what you said. He reconnected with the kids and grandkids and finally just broke down to his wife. he admitted he just came back for the kids but eventually he realized he missed their marriage too.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."