I second what Yoyo has said. We cause ourselves untold damage and heartache by assuming things. I would be just killing myself laughing that he has a sexual problem. That will make your W think that he doesn't fancy her after a while - that is a real turn off. IT MATTERS.

GISH. You are a kind and loving man. You can only control yourself. You have a son to look after.

Truly I do believe that OM will show his true colours more and more and that will finish this all off.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength