I was almost a WAW (and still am-- in my heart?)

[Dom R]

hi sandi,

just got on for the morning, and happened to reread an older post of yours. i noticed something:

After the GS was older and not staying over all the time, H was still sleeping in front room. 21 years later.....he still chooses to do that. I told him how I felt and he had not explaination really.....nothing of any weight. I took it as a sign of neglect and laziness to work on the R.

I notice that you used past tense in your analysis: you "took it as"...

hopefully, you now realize that your assumption about him, was incorrect.