Well, I called FIL after the surgery to tell him that all went well. He said they may come up this weekend. Some background, they only live 1 1/2 hrs away and NEVER come to see us. It's sad really. Boys hardly ever see them. I think they've seen S19mnths MAYBE a handfull of times and he's almost 2. He was also named after FIL's father!!!!
I told H this a.m. that and then proceeded to get a little teary eyed. I told him it's probably just PMS, and I've dealt w/ it, but during the whole D sitch, FIL came up to talk to H (I guess) and treated me like complete sh*t that night that he was here. I felt uncomfortable in my own home. He acted so cold & indifferent to me. On top of this, I was REALLY close w/ FIL!!! When I was pregnant w/ our first boy, H was in training and I actually lived w/ FIL & his wife. Anyway, I don't bring things up to rub them in H's face, but sometimes I think he needs to realize how much that whole time period affected me and how much pain it truly caused and how just little "life" things bring everything back very easily.
Now, don't get me wrong, at the same time, I also remind myself that H was obviously in a lot of pain for a long time too for him to even get to the D point to begin w/. I am never going to forget all the lessons I've learned through this, but sometimes it's hard to just "forget" the way H has been able to.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
