Sue, Morgan is right. Don't let him know how much things bother you. They are so overly sensitive at this time and will look for any reason to see us as a bi@#h at this time. Don't give him the oppurtunity.
Just do what you think you need to do for daughter. Maybe you could start laying her clothes out a week ahead of time and make it just seem like you are trying to get more organized. I've seen those little hanging things that have sections in them. You could put the clothes in there. I know that I never trusted my H to pick out clothes for my girls when they were little. When he did they always looked like orphans, LOL.
Yoyo
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