the book is warming up. I'm hoping to watch the film next week. I've been reading some of your posts. You really have been through the mill.(i'm sorry) You said that your marriage is happy now. How long did it take and when did you know he was coming back to you. Although i'm keen to keep the family together. He's hurt me so badly now and lied and lied(and still lying). I'm starting to not want to be with him. If it wasn't for my lovely kids. I would have happily gone ages ago. I feel trapped. I do care about him, but he has always been controlling and manipulative.