Much as it probably hurt to do, I think you did the right thing in not giving in to his sexual advances. Seems that his desire is at least partly driven by insecurity and jealousy (the mythical/mysterious Jerrod).
Keep the door open, Chicki. Sounds like he wants to walk through it, but is scared. And, as MMH's tagline says, 'bridle your tongue.' SHOW HIM you are different.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
