Hows this for a fine example of passive speak ....
In the early days of our relationship I made a grave mistake, I shrunk one of his jumpers, it ended up the size of a babies top, our 1st major fall out, of course I apologised but he convinced himself that I had done this on purpose because I didn't like it.
In the run up to the bomb H would throw all my clothes in the dryer whether they could go in or not and when I complained he said " you shrunk my jumper" was this my passive agressive H paying me back for a mistake I made 20 years ago ???
Do you think if I had took better care of that jumper I would now be in a happy loving relationship with my H.
This just came to me, a thought out of the blue, one of those funny little moments when you realise how rediculous MLC makes a person act.
