I haven't re read it yet. Part of me wants to believe he is a bad bet and the days my wife is questioning herself, I believe it in a way but when she is upbeat about it, I feel that are getting closer together. I am pulled mentally in two different directions. Not sure now far I can be pulled before it breaks. My wife emailed me a few minutes ago and is in a great mood now compared to last night. I'm not paranoid but I know that means that must have talked today at work and made up. I can guarantee that :-( Thanks Saffie, you are keeping me somewhat sane and I appreciate your thoughtfulness