(((HUGS))) to your D. she seems to be forced to grow up too fast it seems.

my kids are sad about daddy not living with us, but I try my hardest to make him out to be a bad guy. its a sad, every single day thing that I deal with, and wow, it gets hard. but I don't want them to feel guilty for loving/wanting their daddy, so I keep it safe to talk to me about their sadness. but wow, I want to kick him/hit him/pummel him every time they talk to me.

I'm scared for when they meet ow someday...I just fear they will feel replaced, just like they will realize mommy has been replaced.

Last edited by morgan; 10/03/07 02:41 PM.
M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher