If you can just "be" and be comfortable in the same room, that's just fime. I know you want more and I hate the "niggles". Remember to be patient and then be patient some more. One thing that was pointed out to me is that when I get those thoughts that something is going to happen....sometimes it does and sometimes I may have created it, just so I would know when the bomb would drop (as opposed to waiting for it). I found this worth alot of thought. Has sure brought my patience back up.
Things just are for me right now. Working on patience and positive energy.