Husband, This will sound real cheesy, but Rome wasn't built in a day. We all have to remind ourselves of that all the time. It took you a long time to write the letter, so it will take her a while to get her thoughts together.
I'm thinking that you may not get a reply. She may just use actions. After a few days you may have to bring it up if you feel the need.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon