I'm disrespected here too. It sucks. But for you, you can seem to do anything right (although I get that here too lol). I am so sorry. It seems your problems have washed over to your sons, where W feels she might have some 'control' over you. Neutral, neutral, neutral...Even when she brings up crazy stuff, give yourself time to respond. Like when my H said when we separate he'll have the kids Sunday-Friday and I get them on Saturday..... Um, ok. Fog talk, much?
I could write sooo much of what you are writing, about being the enemy. He hasn't outright said it, but I know he justifies his A by how I treated him.
Have you read "Not Just Friends?" I just started it last night and I am amazed at how RIGHT ON they are about things. Its eerie. Gives an insight into the WAS's thinking, but also is very comforting to the LBS.
