What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Thanks Jak...I have been following your stich as well. I feel bad because I have no real advice for people. This whole situation has me at a loss. I have no idea what to do in most situations.

Things are still good. He seems happy and content. Real close. I am trying to GAL and still be good to him. I haven't been sleeping well now that I am getting bigger with this pregnancy. Exh came home with a body pillow. Not normally like him to do that kind of stuff. I am usually the caregiver. He brings me food and treats every day (not what I need!!), and generally is here alot. He seems to be turning back into the man I married....but so scared to bank on that.

We have our big ultrasound and amniocentesis this Friday. I know we both are excited and a bit nervous. There are some risks involved but they are minimal and until we hear 'healthy baby' I think we will both be on edge. I have to stay in bed for a couple of days after and he will be here to help with the other kids.

Interesting conversation with his exwife...who is my friend. She called me yesterday to calm my nerves about the amnio. She said exh had been talking with her about it and how nervous I was. She told him he needed to cater to me...she also said that about 2 weeks ago they were talking and he said he has changed and there was no way he was going to blow this again. Nice to hear those words from someone else.

Anyway, thats my update. Things are well, but I still keep my eyes open.