I think you need to watch your mouth and stop with the little comments. I know it's hard as you are hurting, but they will be the little things that he takes away with him.
It seems like he wants to come back but is worried things will not be OK. You have to take the high road and SHOW him that you are different - that together you can be different. Stop pushing the buttons that make him worry about how it will be.
Piecing is really hard and you will have times when you will get mad at how much hurt he has caused. If you want it to work you have to button that. Start practising being more in control while he is gradually moving back. you can always go and scream when he's gone!!!! It will get you into practice for when he is back full time.
This is so hard.
(((((HUGS))))))) Chicki Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
