Mandy, My W said a variation of the same thing, except I wasn't listening. Give him space. He's either being honest or he's not (great analysis, that). Either way, giving him the time he's asked for and focusing on yourself (maybe find yourself a pink makeup case ) are what you need to do anyway.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY