Nomopo's Funk? Is that what this is?

[Heimlich]

Thanks for blowing a little Sunshine up my nether regions, Sunshine

Don't know about Nomo, but for me, I purposely stopped thinking about my W in all of this as I tried to DB. I found that if I focused on her faults/role in this, I became less inclined to try. Over time, it's started to balance out. While I might not have done great, I've done my best and I'm comfortable looking at myself and saying that.

You're right, and I came to this over the weekend, I need to find myself again. Can't have a R, with W or anyone else, until that happens. Don't think I'm buried too far under daddy/married guy, but we'll see. I had lost some respect for myself and I'm about 99.9% positive that she lost respect for me. Getting that self-respect back is key to getting both me, and possibily in the future, her, back. And I'm getting there.

I know that we deserve better than we've gotten from our wives. It's a struggle, but I'm doing my best to let her go. Why does that stupid cliche have to be right?

BD