The Retro weekend is a great thing, but both spouses have to want to be there, the other thing they insist on is that there be no 3rd party involved. So if your h is still involved then you can't really get the full benefit, as there will be someone else in the background.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!