I'm here to tell you that I'm living proof that homer is right. Just a small recap on my story. My husband told me nine months ago that he doesn't love me anymore. Of course I did everything that your not suppose to do...begging, pledging etc. I found this site and read db and dr and started backing off. He went out of town to work in June and was going to be out of town for four months. Low and behold I found myself in that time peroid. In Sept. I realized that I've had enough. I laid down the law and I told him I was only holding on for the kids because I was trying to protect them from the pain of divorce, I realized that I could no longer protect them from this and I had to let it go. And thats what I did I let it go..I let H go and I let the marriage go. After I did that it was like a switch was turn on in my head. I was starting to plan for my future and not for our future. Guess what happen next! H started to see changes in me. Started asking questions. All of the sudden he was professing his love for me again. Asking me to give it another try. I was stunned and pissed off at first. I mean come on, he put me through hell and now that I've let it go he wants to try. It took me awhile to absorb all this. And truly I don't want a divorce and I want to try again. So we have come together and made a pact to stay totally honest with ourselves and each other and see where that takes us.
I didn't read homer's book. But this is what happened to me. This has been my experience your outcome might be different.
My goal in writing this is for the both of you to see that you deserve more than what your WAS is offering you. I realized this and made the changes I needed to make. I realized that I had to take a stand for Sunshine....
