hold up, wait a minute....my copy of dr is missing????
LL,
You had me laughing with that one! No such luck! Does H read your posts? Have you asked him to read DR, especially the "Infidelity" section?
If H is home every night, it seems to me like he is trying. I feel much better when W is here, even if it's in another bedroom, but the days she stays here are getting shorter and shorter, and ABSOLUTELY no R talk.
You are right on track. You need to focus on H & R and not the OW, forget about it, and you'll feel much better!
Maybe you should spend less time on the computer, and more on R! Tony