The best thing I can tell you right now, is just try and lets things be for now, make sure that you guys make it to the weekend, you may find that the week before you both will be alittle tense, and its only natural, going to something that potentially can have such a big impact! But don't let it get to you. With your H being willing to go, it will work well, because you both will be open to it! You are doing so great! keep it up!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!