Hi..how's it going? I take it from your last day or so..you are feeling down.It's ok to be down...you've been through alot this past year. It is going to go slow, ups and downs..h acting like he doesn't want to be there..so you have to take each day and do the best for yourself at the time.
I do have to agree with Tina on the seperation thing..as much as I don't want to be apart..we needed this time...it is 4 months today that he moved and we are not any closer to getting back then when he left..the tension is gone..h seems happy and relaxed as am I..but we are not working on us together right now...your h made the decision to come back...if it was too soon, then you know the option for that, and you said there won't be another seperation..so work with what you both have to offer..sounds like you do have a big enough house to spread out. Just don't keep beating yourself up.. Sue
