Lester is absolutely right. It is a strategic move to consult with attys that you do not want your W to hire and represent her. Every city has the gun-slinger atty that utilizes the scorched earth policy. I certainly would not want to deal with that sort of atty. Most attys I know like to see reconciliation or at least amicable divorces. However, it is certainly en vogue to demonize attys, that is, until you actually need one. The internet certainly has useful info but I have seen internet sites that claim to have a product that will make you lose 10 lbs in a week without diet or exercise. BTW, I'm an atty.
