My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[saffie]

My wife said his wife treated him EXTREMELY bad after he cheated on his wife years ago and didn't let him forget it.

WTF????!!!! And what should his W have done? Patted him on the back and told him what a good boy he was. This guy is a sh!t.
And your W thinks this guy is a good bet. Your wife is fcuking crazy.

Really GISH. Stop thinking about OM. Stop thinking about your W - I know that's hard. She is making her bed. Let her lie in it a while. Concentrate on you and your son. Your W will not stay with this man - he is scum.

By being strong for you and your son you are helping your W in the long run. It means you will be available to help her when she does need rescuing - that moment has not been reached yet.

If that underwear came to you destroy it and don't say you ever saw it. Things get lost in the post all the time.

Saffie