My W locked me out of her heart and you lock me out of my thread.LOL
I am sure she read it. I think that is why my son and she didn't get much done on his homework during the day. Think that is why she waited until I can home to take her mom shopping so she would be out of the house and she could have a drink at her mom's house before she came home. I think her attitude changed when she saw that I was not confrontational when I got home. Good or bad I think she was ready for something to happen when she saw me after work.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Your wife has NOT locked you out of her heart. Just bl**dy well pick your self up of the floor. My H took three days to reply to my email.
You have been thinking about this for ages. Your W has only just got this letter.
You are giving up after all this time - I don't believe it. I am nearly ripping my hair out in frustration.
Do you beleive she really has a drink problem?
If she was not wanting to be with you she would have been packing by the time you got home. She would definately not have been carrying on with daily life. Please get a grip. Your imagination is running away with you.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Hold on to your panties...... I was just kidding with LWB. We said the "normal" good night last night like no letter was sent. I know she got it. I am sure she is thinking about it. No worry here. How are you doing?
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I was getting worked up about money etc because of my horse I think.
My H really doesn't like my horse. She was a massive bone of contention between us before he had his A. Her injured leg has already cost me around �6000 but that was covered by insurance. Now they will no longer insure her leg and so we will have to pay out for more treatment. I had already paid for some that I had to tell H about and I was thinking that he would tell me to have her shot if she was going to cost another load of money. I know it's stupid but she means so much to me. H was actually great and came home with plans for an economy drive so that I can save the money for her. I felt really bad as H has been waiting ages to but himself a TVR and he will have to wait a bit longer now.
I also do just have problems with depression and so it doesn't take much to push me over the edge. I have very low self esteem and strong feelings of self dislike. Sometimes I cannot maintain a PMA.
It is hard on my H and I get frightened that he will find it too much and have another A. He say's he wouldn't ever do that to me but I guess I'm worried about the old 'once bitten twice shy' thing!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
If ya need to vent e-mail me. Go back and read my posts from last night. I think things went well. Maybe I didn't make the letter strong enough though. But it is easier to write a stronger one next time than to have written one too strong and try to back peddle.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I too have a hard time spending money on pets. But.... Both of my W cats got nose cancer. (She had these cats before me. WE did pay allot of money for chemo. And the cat's died anyway. The two cats are now cremated and sitting on the book shelf. I do know that our pets are family. My dog and son are my best friends. Take it easy girl. You might have a low self esteem but I think you are HOT
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
The reason she may have been slightly stand offish when you got home last night might have been because you were late and she was worried about what YOU were going to be like.
I like the plan of waiting until after her birthday..
You are such a thoughtful guy - she would be an idiot to lose you and my gut tells me she knows that. saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
