Saffie, Maybe because I am so angry at him, that it is clouding my description of him. I really don't know if he's a nice person. Only that my wife feels compansion for him because she said he is a shell of a man because of his soon to be ex wife. My wife said his wife treated him EXTREMELY bad after he cheated on his wife years ago and didn't let him forget it. He is nice to my wife with the exception of some of the arguments they have had. She said sometimes he can be moody and a azz but she shrugs that off because of all the pressure he is under, financial strain, etc. So even though he made the comment the other day that "sometimes I don't have time for you in my head all the time" to my wife, it upset her but she almost excuses it because of the pressure and complications he is having. So I'm not sure if he would be the one to break it off