My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[saffie]

It is so unlikely it will happen. Reread over your previous thread. Take stock of what you have said. OM is NOT an option for your wife. What you need to do is make sure by looking after yourself that when she is done with OM you are an option. I suspect however OM will 'dump' your wife maybe before she is over him. He is not a nice person from the way you describe him. Your wife seems gullible as well as vulnerable. He will tire of her. I think she is too needy for him. He sounds very bad tempered and unsavoury. I cannot beleive that he can remain constant enough in temperament for your W to want to be with him.

That said you cannot control their actions and behaviour - only your own.

I KNOW how much the physical side of things between them hurts. I've been there. It IS awfull but you have to get beyond that. Stop focusing on OM and focus on you.

Did this underwear got to your place? How do you know it's arrived?

Saffie