My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[cagzmom]

I live in NC too and i would love to confront the little girl who KNOWS she is breaking up or HELPING break up my marriage..I would love to...BUT let me tell you this..

What I have learned through my stint is this
1)If they want to come home they will period - we can't "DO"
anything - it is her for now, and if it wasn't her it would be
or could be somoene else
2)If you FORCE her hand you are and yes I KNOW this for a fact
YOU ARE PUSHING her out
3)LET IT GO - I too want to go after the little B* that
interfered with my hope this past month BUT HE and your wife
HAVE TO COME TO THIS ON THEIR OWN

If we go in and try and manipulate or fix or change or confront NOTHING good comes out of it. They (our spouse) will twist it turn it and make it look like we are idiots. ALSO - if you are anything like me or any other person who has been betrayed BECAREFUL---- your rage, disgust, insecurtiy, anger, jealousy all of it can turn into something very very dangerous seriouslly...i know what I am talking about...