CMC, I actually stole this from lwb, but use whatever works! Thank you for stopping by and welcome
lwb, I like my camera and he has to pay for it with his own money. I'm trying not to think about what he probably bought OW. I'm sure she probably got the bigger better something. Puke. I'm not going to go there. I'm not. We have come a long way this last week. We are now communicating daily, nd he has come to see the kids twice in five days rather than three weeks. BIG improvement.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
It sucks to obsess over OW so don't. Even if she were f'in Angelina Jolie, no one can stand that ho anyways. I am so kidding.
I like to think of Olivia DeHaviland in Gone With The Wind. Scarlett was always making googly eyes at Ashlee. What a slut. And Olivia DeHavilland just said, "Well, she is so beautiful, of course men are going to pay attention to her." Such a classy wife. It is extremely difficult for a WS to leave a happy spouse. Remember that. In his speech, he has mentioned that this supposed OP is his friend. Act as if, give the benefit of the doubt, think positive, show forgiveness, and take responsibility for your failure in the R stuff, too. Heis closer to home than you think so keep DBing. You are doing so great, do not break trust with snooping or obsessing. Reread DR if you have too.
I have a feeling in the real world, you are all calmness and grace. here, you are just venting about what may be going through his head. But let's go with Occam's Razor way of thinking. he needs to eat, sleep, and feell like he belongs somewhere. Show him the path home through food, love, and family. That is what it is all about. OK sex, too. But that is for MCs and Piecing. I could not do it with my H.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
interesting the gone with the wind analogy. I hadn't thought of that for some reason. olivia de haveland was classy, but I am just not that good a person, i don't think. I can picture just how calm/serene/secure she was...wish I could buy that somewhere
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
OMG, my Infidelity Flu has returned. I was actually told to stop losing weight. I am in the single digits and I kind of miss my butt. Size 7 is falling off of me. Before I caught the flu I was heading into XLarge territory. Plus, Maybe this is positive MLC, but I invested in skin care and hair care. I never cared about wrinkles and grey hair before!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Re: Tori Amos. So off topic, Neph. I stopped listening to her because of a break up with a guy 15 years ago and I still have not reclaimed her. I dated several men in between having a R with my H. We were platonic for 9 years. This Tori Amos man hid being a Wiccan from me. I felt betrayed but worse. He stood me up on my birthday. I waited for him at the Paris Opera House all night. It was supposed to be so romantic. Maybe I can reclaim Tori now thanks to you!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
neph, no more infidelity flu for me, unfortunately. I suppose its progress, the fact that I am eating again, but damn, it would have been nice to have it for those last 10lbs. lol. even in single digits, my butt never goes away. even when I was at my thinnest, trust me, it isn't going anywhere. lol. I would like to lose around 10 or so pounds, put me solidly in a 6, which to me is fine, considering my shape (not a twig, not matter what).
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Or as morgan puts it "my H's F'in a whore" diet.