I know that the way it was handle was better then before the retro weekend, I had hoped that H had a better understanding of how I felt after being at the weekend and hearing the presenting couples stories. Maybe it will just take time. During the beginning stage of h affair, he had sort of the same thing happen, said he was working on a project, where he was in meetings all day, so couldn't be reached, and was working late, in the wee hours of the morning, however h swears that was work, and he never lied about about where he was...he said I was always able to reach him by phone, which I did, but his cell phone...so that didn't really mean much! We did handle it better, and was fine with each other for the rest of the night.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
