That's why it's hard coming home from Retrouvaille, because you are back in your world with all it's problems. I wanted to stay in that safe place forever.
But look at how you handled the problem last night. You both talked openly and honestly and with understanding. How would the same discussion have gone before Retrouvaille? This is a big problem, it would have been nice if it could have waited at least until you finished all the post sessions. But the truth is this is what you and H have to deal with in your lives. You need to work together to overcome it. I would suggest trying a small piece of it to dialogue on tonight. The most important thing is to keep the discussion going.
