lsl,

I have no idea why but your post has me in tears.

I know that a rummbled bed matters not..I simply state that I do feel better for some reason when h makes the effort to put it back together after getting out of it but when he doesn't I keep it to myself.

I know I need to get back to going to mass regularly wish we could go as a family but??? don't really have a good excuse so I'll stop there.

I will re-read dr again and again and when I find something of interest I will show it to or read a sentance to h to peak his interest.

I don't know about a call to a db coach...am I simply avoiding??? maybe

I love my h and he loves me of that there is no denying but we each want more and don't know how to get there.

LL