neph's question from locked thread: Morgan, have you ever gone completely dark with your H? Have you ever been completely unavailable? What happened?
I actually consider myself dark right now...at least dark grey. have been for a while. I don't call him, unless there is a real, true reason for it. and even then, I try other routes first. I have to maintain a certain amount of contact because of the kids, so I do hear from him daily (he calls 2x a day for the kids, I call when he has them). when he comes to see them during the week, I leave (busy busy busy and all that).
nothing really has happened. he gets crabby on occasion because he doesn't know what I am doing (keeping personal life personal and all that). he attacked me a month or so ago...you all remember that, guess I triggered that desire button or something. but really, nothing else has changed, other than allowing me to detach a little bit.
Last edited by morgan; 10/03/0711:11 AM.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
