Quote: Now, how to get him to make that leap of faith???
well the discussion last night started by my asking how his day was..then him getting into the fact that he's gotta go through all the books get everything in line to get the taxes done...then of course has to get the season proposals ready wich lead to my asking what he plans to do about these customers (the 5 on her street and it's a littel close culdisac so imho all should go..to close for comfort)
he said he had to talk to employee who he contracts cuts out too...imho again this wont work..this way someone goes and cuts the lawns..but he is still the landscaper still the one they call still the one who sends the bills still the one who addresses problems and after all h does do more than just cut lawns so the tie directly to him for anything else is still there...
h doesn't know what to do with this...
h changed his story about when he plowed her driveway...she was conveniently in the garage doing something...(ya whatever little twit) so he did say hi and all that how are you crap...
h doesn't know what to do about that sit...
about the appartment???
think he's waiting til such a time that all is well and he's happy here all the time...
it's a convinience for him and yes whether he realizes it or not it's a saftey.
h has taken the rest of the day off to go be a good friend to buddie who is upset about it being the anniversary of his mothers death (several years have passed not that it makes it easier)
so what to do???
when h called to tell me of his change of plans I was kind and considerate and compasionate about the sit...suggesting to h that he not let buddie drink too much that if he starts in that direction to suggest tossing around a football instead of hanging at the bar..h agreed and then said bye in such a manner that was...well????...sweet I guess.
so I've made plans to take off for dinner with the kiddos and my mom...I don't think h will actually make it home at 6 like he says and honestly if his friend needs him he needs to be there...but I can't help but wonder...where the hell is buddies wife for him today????? she should be the one to comfort him today not my h. oh well not my business.
